Ladies and Gentlemen, may I introduce to you…
Miss Stefani Germanotta.
She recently sang a medley of Julie Andrews tunes from “The Sound Of Music” on Sunday’s Oscar telecast.
Look at that sweet smile. Her voice was amazing.
They gave her a standing ovation.
I don’t know about you, but that’s the kind of a person I’d love to have in my church.
Sweet, talented, full of energy. Engaging.
However, this is also Miss Stefani Germanotta:
Actually, you can’t see her in this picture.
She’s the one inside the egg, carried by her entourage.
Still want her in your church?
That’s the problem with Lady Gaga. She’s a package deal.
This Lady may have a Julie Andrews side,
but she’s also got a “Gaga” side.
Really, I’m not exactly asking the “church” question about Lady Gaga.
I mean, the chances of her showing up at your church on Sunday morning are remote. And, let’s face it, she can push just about anybody’s boundaries of good taste. Case in point:
(That’s a dress made out of meat, in case you were wondering.)
No, I’m asking the question about you, and me, and countless visitors to our churches.
Is there an expectation that we only reveal our “Julie Andrews” side at church, but hide away our “Gaga” side?
I think this happens all the time.
For a variety of reasons, people feel compelled to display the more “socially acceptable” parts of our lives when it comes to church, and hold back on anything outside the norm or weird.
Here are some slightly more tame examples of what I’m talking about:
- The woman in her forties that teaches Sunday School and curses like a sailor around the house.
- The couple in their twenties who greet at the door in their Sunday Best, but spend their Saturdays in costume at the Renaissance fair.
- The nice young man who’s been hanging around for a few weeks, and wonders if anyone knows he tends bar out at the casino.
- The youth group member who really seems to know her Bible, and plays really loud guitar in a punk band.
- The sweet old woman who always says “hello”, and whose house could be featured on an episode of “hoarders”.
If we only love each other when we’re on our most proper behavior, then we’re only loving the part that’s easy.
Remember, Jesus loved people, meat suits and all. (Well, I can’t quote a scripture for that, but I think he would.)
He loved the whole person, not just the normalized parts.
Unless our churches can be places where people are free to be their full selves, without fear of ridicule, ostracization, or condemnation, we’ll be little more than public stages where we can just act like Christians.
It’s something to consider.
Now, I think Lady Gaga has a ways to go before she’s interested in joining any church.
But if she ever does, I hope she finds a church that loves her for the crazy, dramatic, talented, and weird person that she is.
I hope the same for you, too, weirdo. 🙂
Have a great week,