There used to be like-minded people in the world, but now there are only unlike-minded people. I used to pray for harmony, for unity, for getting along. Now, I pray nobody gets hurt.
This is terrible, the state of things. It’s a plague. This is the kind of polarized thinking that tears down nations, and friendships, and churches. Is there anything we can do to fix this?
A world filled with unlike-minded people will surely rip itself apart at the seams. Surely this is not what our children want to inherit. Surely this is not what Jesus taught us. If you keep standing over there, and I keep standing over here, the chasm between us could swallow us whole.
What is to be done?
One answer is simple but a challenge: We have to learn to like each other again. We have to try.
Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. –Philippians 2:1-2
When I relearn how I like your funny stories, your excellent skills as a chef, your passion for Fleetwood Mac, and your dedication to discipleship—then I remember your humanity, and that you are a person of worth.
And if you relearn how you like my doodles, and how I treat my kids, my ability to fix anything, and my willingness to step out in faith—then you remember my humanity, and that I am a person of worth.
We will still have some heated discussions about the issues, and sometimes we’ll be loud and proud about it, but our capacity to listen will be vastly multiplied. We may never agree with each other on all the issues out there, but we will remember how to value each other as children of God. Doesn’t that sound nice? Healthy even?
I’m tired of being unlike-minded. I’m going to start liking again. People. Sisters and Brothers in Christ. People I disagree with. Would you like to try, too?
Well, look at that.
Something we have in common.
Have a great week,