From the website Liespotting.com:
Humans are lied to as many as 200 times a day.
Social psychologist Jerald Jellison of the University of Southern California published this figure in his 1977 book, “I’m Sorry, I Didn’t Mean To, and Other Lies We Love To Tell.” The hard-to-believe figure, which of course includes the many innocent “white lies” we hear each day, was given further credence in a 2002 study by Robert Feldman of the University of Massachusetts, who found that on average, people told two to three lies in a ten-minute conversation.
In short — We’re being lied to. How does that make you feel?
How many bold face lies come at me in a day? Maybe I don’t want to know.
Keep in mind, a lot of those lies are to avoid embarrassment, to protect secrets, and to gloss over unpleasantness.
I’m okay with those.
It’s the other ones that make me furious.
If I find out someone has been hurtfully and deceitfully dishonest to my face, I’m apt to push them out of my life.
At least until I cool off. And am apologized to.
“Thou Shalt Not Bear False Witness.” It’s a pretty serious commandment when you think about it.
How can we build a society if we don’t have some degree of honesty in place?
How can we build the Kingdom of Heaven on Earth?
Shame, shame, shame.
Ahem. Um. Can I be honest?
I’ve told some doozies in my day.
I’ll stop if you stop.
Not the little white ones. I think we need those.
Oh, and that line above where I said I’d stop if you stop?
My fingers were crossed.
But seriously, folks.
Lying is a hard habit to break.
Honesty is a spiritual discipline, and we need help.
What we need is the Spirit’s help.
The Spirit of Grace…
to help us at baring our false witnesses,
and clothing us with righteousness.
So be it.
Have a great week,