Hello, fellow wigged-out citizens of the world!
As the old proverb goes, “May you live in interesting times”. The coronavirus has provided a nuisance for everybody, a challenge for many, and a life-and-death situation for some.
Although we are limiting our in person social interaction with each other these days, we’re staying in touch in smaller groups, grocery stores, and most certainly, online.
Have you noticed that everybody has a “take” on this whole thing? Everyone is affected, so everyone has a perspective. Below are my unscientific thoughts on 5 kinds of folks you may have encountered. See if you recognize yourself.
1. THE EXPERT. Some folks are hard to talk to, even in good times. In stressful times like these, they can become insufferable. They have all the facts. They don’t ask questions, or ponder philosophically, they just tell you the way it is. Except they don’t really know any more than the rest of us. They get their info from a TV network or news source that they have identified as the most reliable, and that info, to them, becomes law. (Listen carefully, and then go and fact check later!)
2. THE THEORIST. The theorist isn’t quite so interested in facts. They’re more interested in rumors. THEORISTS (Short for Conspiracy Theorists) look for the darkest, most sinister explanations. They will gravitate to the most sensational, unverified news, and spew it out into the world for the rest of us to chew on. What’s frustrating is when there’s this tiny tickle in the back our minds that wonders, “what if it’s true?” (Enticing as some ideas may be, try not to get sucked in.)
3. THE CURATOR. The curator has a seeming addiction to sharing. Oversharing. Every semi-funny meme about running out of toilet paper. Every sentimental picture about getting through this tough time. Every news report or blog post or YouTube video about the virus — they consider it their job to get this info out to the world. Regardless of helpful or unhelpful intentions, CURATORS overshare, and that can clog up our feeds and our brains. (Engage where you can, but if it gets to be too much…learn how to scroll on by.)
4. THE FLAILER. You have 6 rolls of toilet paper in your cart. They have 60. You’re stressed out. They’re apoplectic. Like somebody who can’t swim, thrown into the deep end, they are clearly not handling the pressure well. There’s plenty of panic to go around these days, but FLAILERS seem unable to throttle it back. If protecting themselves and their family gets in the way of social correctness, so be it. FLAILERS are drowning because they’ve forgotten, or never learned, how to tread water. (Look for ways of lending a hand without being pulled under.)
5. THE NORMAL. If you don’t firmly fit in any of the above categories, congratulations! That likely means you’re just one of the more NORMAL people dealing with this crisis. ——
Wait. Are you kidding me? There are NO NORMAL PEOPLE in a crisis. There’s only you, and me, and the myriad of ways we deal with anxiety. Every person you encounter is anxious in some way or another, like a child that wants its mother. That emerges in different ways at different times.
The truth is, while some of the above categories might actually ring true for people you know, everybody is afraid. The folks who deny it, the folks who analyze it, or can’t stop talking about it, or retreat from it, or thrash around in it, or do what they’re told, or lend a hand, or write devotions about it.
You’re bound to meet all kinds of people in a crisis. All of us reacting against fear. In different ways and in different amounts, if you begin to look and listen for it, you’ll recognize it. It’s an epidemic.
But God is bigger than coronavirus. God is bigger than anxiety. I’m sure you already knew that, but here’s a reminder. Take a deep breath and read:
For this is what the Lord says:
“I will extend peace to her like a river,
and the wealth of nations like a flooding stream;
you will nurse and be carried on her arm
and dandled on her knees.
13 As a mother comforts her child,
so will I comfort you;
and you will be comforted over Jerusalem.” Isaiah 66:12-13
In a crisis, perhaps we could return to this image of God tenderly comforting, holding us, bringing us back into our right minds. That’s actually one of the most effective ways to overcome panic–to be held. It helps our brains reengage. Can you feel God, rocking you gently, reminding you who you are?
Covid 19? Meet Isaiah 66. The cure for the common coronavirus may not be readily available, but a welcome salve for all the kinds of people you’ll meet in crisis is the calming peace of God. It is transmitted by humans in acts of compassion and kindness. And we can all get it, directly, in prayer and moments of grace.
God can calm EXPERT anxiety, and THEORIST, and FLAILER, and CURATOR anxiety too. And God can calm you. Spread the word. Be the gentle arms of Christ for all the people you meet.
Okay, you may want to maintain social distancing, but even across our self-imposed quarantines…
Love is highly contagious.
Have a great week,
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Spot on as always, Mitch. The line “Every person you encounter is anxious in some way or another, like a child that wants its mother.” reminded me of “23”–“Shepherd of my heart, my heart breaks down, my head spins ’round, and I’m running wild like a frightened child lost in the mall, too scared to call out for help.” Thanks for this reminder that, even in THIS “dark valley,” the Shepherd is still Emmanuel, God with us.
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Excellent message! Thanks, Mitch.